You can employ self help motivation by modeling others.
We’ve all met them, no matter the situation they can charm the birds out of the trees. They are friendly, charismatic, charming and just plain nice.
This is the “people person”. He or she seems comfortable in any company and any social situation. They earn peoples respect and support in any and every endeavor and the reason this happens is because a people person genuinely gives and then gives some more.
Are you a people person? Want to know how to become one.
Here is a list of traits of a typical people person. Copy them and use them for your self help motivation.
1# They are genuine.
No fakery here. They are genuinely interested in other people.
2# They actively listen.
They are aware that they have two ears and one mouth so they listen twice as much as they talk. They listen in order to understand, not just to formulate an answer.
3# They have a sense of humor.
They laugh with people, not at them. They use the power of laughter in order to lift our spirits.
4# They are strong within their own beliefs and values.
Anchored in a “values” mindset they are able to appreciate anothers point of view.
5# They “give”.
They are constant provider’s of the gifts of love, laughter, empathy and compassion.
6# They are eternal students.
They are constantly open to learning new things and using new found knowledge to improve not only their own lives but the lives of others.
7# They understand the “golden rule”.
They do as they would be done by.
Of course, the forgoing doesn’t represent an exhaustive list of the personality traits of a people person, but I hope it gets you thinking along the right lines.
Go ahead and use these traits for your self help motivation, if you do, you will find that you are rewarded with all the good things in life.
Here are some other sites that offer some excellent information on self help motivation.
- Success Secrets Keys For Success – EruptingMind Self Improvement Tips. Free Health Money Self Improvement Advice Ideas Tips Success Secrets Skills. What Do You Want To Do Success .
- Effective People Skills Developing People Skills – EruptingMind Self Improvement Tips. Free Health Money Self Improvement Advice Ideas Tips Developing Effective People Skills. What Do You Want To Do .
- Health Fitness Tips – EruptingMind Self Improvement Tips. Free Health Money Self Improvement Advice Ideas Tips Free Health Tips Advice. What Do You Want To Do .
I wish you Health, Wealth and Happiness.
August 12th, 2010 at 4:52 pm
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